MMM video of July

Here is the recording of the last zoom meeting, “Becoming a Child of God” by Bayarma.


1. Chambumogeon
2. “True Parents as the only begotten Son and begotten Daughter” (Dr. Jin Choon Kim)
3. “Boundaries in Marriage” (Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend)


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BFD-EUME held a “Refresh your Blessing” webinar from the end of June to the beginning of July. It consisted of a series of five evening seminars for older Blessed couples who want to improve their relationship in order to build a Holy Community of God-centered families. The target group was couples who had been Blessed for more than 25 years. The vision was to create a warm and embracing atmosphere where couples could take time to work on their relationship.

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Matching & Blessing Preparation Handbook For Parents and Children

Dear Blessed Families,

The EUME BFD put together this online booklet to support and guide Parents and Blessed Children on the way to the Matching and Blessing.
The booklet is available online and we will offer a hard copy soon as well.
Below you can read the introduction letter from the booklet.

BFD Matching and Blessing Handbook DOWNLOAD

On behalf of the EUME BFD staff,


Anger Never Works As Well As Loving

Written by Greg Baer on


Last week I posted a blog about establishing a personal zero tolerance for anger. Click here to read that blog. I should have anticipated—but did not—a question that would naturally follow what I said. One woman wrote:

“I understand the disadvantages of anger, but how do you say something important to your husband when he doesn’t ever communicate and rarely honors his agreements? Sometimes anger is the only thing that works with someone like that.”

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30 Day Relationship Renewal Challenge

Relationship researcher and therapist John Gottman, has shown that relationships are strengthened when couples engage in 5 positive interactions for every 1 negative interaction. By taking on this challenge you’ll create an awareness about how you interact with your partner. Many of the suggested actions follow Gary Chapman‘s 5 Love Languages, so there is an action to meet the need of every partner! You may also begin interacting with one another in ways you haven’t in months, years or maybe ever. Sounds like a good way to add some spark to the everyday routine!

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