Blessing Preparation

“When you invest beyond your limits and even your life, the power of true love generates ten thousand times more energy…The more you set the power of true love in motion, the greater it will grow so that you can embrace the world, the universe and even God.”

– Cheon Seong Gyeong, Book 3, Chapter 1

In this section, we provide useful information on the process of matching and Blessing for both first-gen and blessed children.

Moreover, we have some materials for you that you might find interesting to read and reflect about while you are preparing to share your life with another child of Heavenly Parent.


You can find useful resources on our Lifestyle page that we carefully put together for you in case you are in need of inspiration or are eager to grow spiritually closer to our Heavenly Parent.

Preparing for Blessed Life

If you are preparing to go to the matching and Blessing, you might find these advices useful.

Here you can find resources discussing communication, relationships, marriage, and sexuality.

If you feel like you need help, feel free to contact our healers and counsellors.

Join a Community

Some inspiring projects that you might want to create in your own community as well. Follow BFD Europe Facebook page for more updates and events.

High Noon Europe Tour – learning how to be open, honest and accountable is great preparation for becoming a loving spouse


First Generation

Welcome to the First Generation Matching area! Here you can read all about our introduction and matching process for first generation members. You can understand how it happens and what it means. You can also gain the benefit of some internal guidance about the Blessing. For clarification, here is a brief explanation of some of … Continue reading First Generation

Blessed Children

We encourage all those applying for the Blessing to take time to reflect on the meaning of the Blessing and to prepare seriously for it. True Parents have established the Cheon-­Il­‐Guk standard for receiving the Blessing. All Second Generation should prepare, and be guided towards the Blessing, according to this standard. Blessing candidates must be … Continue reading Blessed Children


Get advice and inspiration by other Candidates who went through the Matching Process or by other parents who matched already their children. Testimonies from Parents Testimonies by Blessed Children about their Matching Testimonies by 1st Generation about their Matching Testimonies by elder Blessed Children 25+ Testimonies from Blessed Couples about the life of a Blessed … Continue reading Testimonies